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Jun
06
Full time

Full time

I didn't mean to go full time. I just did. This is the opposite of almost everything else
4 min read
May
13
Threshold of revelation (with apologies to Tony Kushner)

Threshold of revelation (with apologies to Tony Kushner)

When people ask me, "When did you know you were a woman?" my answer tends to come in
4 min read
Apr
22
So who were you?

So who were you?

There's been some small degree of debate on trans Twitter (which, really, why would you go there?) about
4 min read
Apr
15
Undergoing renovation

Undergoing renovation

A couple of weeks ago, I had to lay down on my bathroom floor and cry for about 15 minutes.
4 min read
Apr
01
The Voice

The Voice

Today, I called a doctor and made an appointment for a consultation on vocal feminization surgery. It's the
6 min read
Mar
26
Cardinal

Cardinal

It felt a little like the bird was following me around the upper floor of my parents' home. I
4 min read
Mar
14
You maybe don't know how to do this

You maybe don't know how to do this

Every so often, on main, I'll tweet something that sparks an energetic response from the many, many energetic
4 min read
Mar
04
Why do we build the wall

Why do we build the wall

When I was 4, I loved to play dress-up. My mom had a bunch of weird old clothes she had
8 min read
Mar
03
You already know how to do this

You already know how to do this

A couple of weeks ago, my wife and I had a fight, a big one. It wasn't a
5 min read
Feb
02
A Chromosome

A Chromosome

The Y chromosome looks insignificant when lined up next to the other chromosomes. It's a little nubbin of
5 min read